‘Why Great Leaders Ask Great Questions’ – Steve Mostyn

Are you working ‘in’ or ‘on’ the firm?

This is just one of the many provocative and thought stimulating questions Steve Mostyn asks in his book ‘Why Great Leaders Ask Great Questions’.

For a long time we looked to leaders to get answers. According to Steve this is because we confuse authority with leadership.

True leadership in business is grounded in knowing ourselves and building a reflective practice to enhance the understanding of ourselves, our organization and our enviroment, with the aim to develop ourselves, our teams, and our business.

In the 40th episode of the Leadership 2.0 podcast, I interview Steve Mostyn, focusing on the question how leaders can develop such a reflective practice.

Steve is a globally recognised leader in senior executive leadership development and an internationally acclaimed thought-leader in leadership training, and the author of the book ‘Why great Leaders ask Great Questions’.

During our conversation we discussed the following topics:

  • Why Great Leaders ask Great Questions
  • How Leaders Reflect
  • Skilled Defensiveness
  • How Leaders can learn to Reflect
  • The impact of reflection on execution
  • Experiences and Empowerment
  • Business Reviews as Joint Problem solving sessions – instead of blame games
  • How Reflective Leaders grow Reflective Leaders
  • Reflection in Executive Programs of the Said Business School

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Dirk Verburg: Why did you title your book Why Great Leaders Ask Great Questions rather than Why Great Leaders Give Great Answers, which is our typical expectation of leaders?

Steve Mostyn: Actually, my working title was The Best Leaders Ask the Best Questions, but my publisher and editor suggested Why Great Leaders Ask Great Questions.

Your provocative point about answers is interesting because we often conflate leadership with authority, which are two quite different things. Authority is about meeting the process needs for protection, direction, and order, where answers play an important part. However, leaders are asking a different question: what adaptations are necessary in my organization or team to thrive?

While that can start as an individual quest, it ultimately must become a community activity. Leadership is a process, an action, and a verb—not a noun. In the complexity of the modern world, leaders actually fuel greater productivity by asking questions.

Answers belong to the domain of authority, not leadership. In organizations, C-suite members are authority figures who may or may not exercise leadership. We all know authority figures who do not exercise leadership, as well as individuals without official titles who do. That distinction is why I focused on the power of questions.

Dirk Verburg: You say the best leaders must know two things: how they reflect, and how to build a reflective practice. How can leaders discover if and how they reflect?

Steve Mostyn: I think it is foundational. When working with executive groups, I am often deeply disappointed by the quality of questions from the C-suite. Most of their questions are driven by ego needs to reinforce their authority. Conversely, the most effective leaders know themselves quite well.

My starting point is to ask people in the first person: “How do I reflect?” I ask them to journal their responses without any prior explanation. To ask good questions in the moment, you must become better at reflecting in the midst of action.

You have to slow down to speed up. Understanding how you reflect helps you stand back from the psychological anxiety of needing to reinforce your authority status. A better question always comes from the art of reflection.

Dirk Verburg: What answers do you typically get when you ask leaders how they reflect? Do you sometimes get no answers at all?

Steve Mostyn: I sometimes hear, “I don’t reflect,” which makes me question how they manage, because everyone reflects. However, the most typical response is actually an answer to a different question: where do I reflect? Leaders will say they reflect while cycling, in the shower, or hill walking. Those are great answers, but they address location rather than method.

When we push further into the how, some explain that they use a journal, ask themselves specific questions, or perform a mental postmortem after an event. I also notice a deeply held assumption that reflection is only about improving weaknesses. Very few people seem to reflect on celebrating success.

Additionally, clever people often get exceptionally good at “skilled defensiveness.” They can use solitary journaling for self-justification. To examine your assumptions truly, the next stage requires reflecting with critical friends, confidants, or mentors. Ultimately, reflection can involve journaling or meditation; it is about whatever works for you. Some reflection is always better than none.

Dirk Verburg: The phrase “skilled defensiveness” sounds intriguing. Can you expand a little bit on that notion, Steve?

Steve Mostyn: The workplace is full of theater, and the more senior you are, the richer that theater becomes. People are constantly managing self-justification and self-defense routines.

There is a dark side to constant, isolated journaling: you might just use it to justify your own autocratic tendencies. Debriefing your reflections with someone who is close enough to the situation, but not too close, helps mitigate that skilled defensiveness. We see this dynamic in organizations all the time.

Dirk Verburg: If a leader realizes they should reflect more, what would you recommend to them?

Steve Mostyn: I believe in mini-experiments. My colleague at Saïd Business School, Mark Clark, suggests a “one-minute reflection” utilizing three simple questions. You can do it in 20 seconds:

  • When did I lead today?
  • When could I have led, but didn’t?
  • What did I learn most today?

Write these down as quick bullet points and then close your journal. This technique directly challenges the number-one excuse I hear, which is “I don’t have time.” Once people try this one-minute technique, they naturally start writing a bit more in the margins. Before they know it, it grows into five minutes.

Journaling physically gets thoughts out of your head onto the paper so you can look at them differently. This builds emotional mastery. It allows you to hold back raw anger or frustration and reframe the moment, giving you an edge as a leader.

Dirk Verburg: What do you recommend to leaders in high-paced industries, like Financial Services, to introduce reflection without slowing down execution?

Steve Mostyn: While financial services are high-paced, the idea that they are constant, non-stop decision-making machines is a bit of a myth. There is actually a ton of time in financial institutions that is deeply reflective. The long hours often involve a different rhythm of work, such as one-to-one discussions and informal corridor meetings.

There is always time if you choose to create it. Leaders in these environments are constantly involved in sense-making, particularly regarding markets. As the poet David Whyte says, the CEO is the chief storyteller. In the best institutions, leaders are sense-makers who tell the story of the market to their peers.

Even the busiest places have reflective routines; you just have to use the right language to access them. There is a cultural expectation to look busy, almost running between meetings. When greeted with “Busy?”, the mandatory answer is “Very busy!” We have to find our moments to access that available time productively.

Dirk Verburg: How do we recommend leaders to move away from the “blame game” we call operational business reviews and get into a joint problem-solving mindset?

Steve Mostyn: It starts with the leader. The easy, authoritarian route in an operational review is to play the blame game by asking one-sided questions about why figures are down.

A generative leader takes a different approach: “I see some concerning trends. Could the team convene a workshop to understand the root cause? I am happy to come along.” The people closest to the problem are usually both the problem and the solution. By giving the work back to the team, they leave empowered and engaged to conduct root-cause analysis.

Change in the market often happens at the periphery, not the center. Weak signals are more prevalent and crucial today than they were five years ago due to the complexity of technology and AI. Giving the work back allows the team to spot those quirky, peripheral signals and experiment.

Do not just outsource the problem by telling them to blindly fix it. That is old-school management, not leadership.

Dirk Verburg: Is there a lesson for corporate talent management and succession planning in your philosophy that reflective leaders grow more reflective leaders?

Steve Mostyn: Succession management is a process, not a standalone event. To have an easier life as an executive, you must constantly grow more leaders. While formal leadership programs are excellent, real development happens in micro-moments and by giving the work back.

For example, if you culturally always chair a specific meeting, rotate the chair. Let a team member manage the details. This allows you to step onto the balcony and observe the process. You might be pleasantly surprised by how fabulously they run it.

Leadership development is a behavior forged in the moment. You cannot develop leaders without giving people the headroom, elbow room, and scope to make decisions.

Dirk Verburg: How do reflection and experimentation shape the way you design and deliver executive education at the Saïd Business School?

Steve Mostyn: It is fundamental. Saïd Business School is part of Oxford, where the tutorial system relies on challenging assumptions. On our eight-week Oxford Executive Leadership Program, reflection is deeply embedded into the design.

We encourage journaling, host online tutorials, and conduct live sessions to manage the momentum. I used to be cynical about online learning for leadership development, but I have changed 360 degrees. It absolutely works, and it builds an incredibly strong, mutually helpful alumni community.

Participants must write a concise 500-word submission on a specific question each week. They initially complain that 500 words is too short and difficult, but the constraint is intentional. It forces them to be incredibly concise and clear about their assumptions. By the end, they are glad for the constraint because it works.

Dirk Verburg: Steve, thank you so much for this interview. I really enjoyed it.

Steve Mostyn: Yes, I am always happy to discuss this. Thank you for your support, interest, and your own curiosity, Dirk, which is a strong feature of your style.

About Steve Mostyn

Steve Mostyn is the author of Why Great Leaders Ask Great Questions: 7 essential reflections for every aspiring leader (John Murray Business). Mostyn is one of the world’s leading designers and directors of senior executive leadership programs and an internationally recognised thought leader in leadership training. He is Associate Fellow at Saïd Business School, University of Oxford; creates and leads the Oxford University Executive Leadership Program; and is Honorary Professor, Adam Smith Business School, University of Glasgow. Mostyn has led many corporate programs for senior leaders including the UN, Standard Chartered Bank, Royal Mail, The Financial Services Authority, and Mercedes F1 Team.

The Book ‘Why Great Leaders Ask Great Questions’

Oxford Executive Leadership Program Said Business School

Carl Jung’s Framework for Personal Development – Interview James Johnston

We all have different behavioral preferences: some of us get energy from being part of a group, others from quiet reflection on their own. When it comes to how we gather data in decision-making processes, some people prefer looking at the facts presented by the current situation, while others rely more on the future possibilities the current situation offers.

The way we make decisions is also different. There are people who prefer to make decisions based on an analytical decision-making process, with their values as ‘guard rails’, while others are guided primarily by their values.

The founder of Analytical Psychology, Carl Jung, described these behavioral preferences (‘predispositions) ‘in his book ‘Psychological Types’ as Extraversion versus Introversion, Sensing versus Intuition, and Thinking versus Feeling. This was later popularized by Isabel Briggs Myers and her mother Katharine Cook Briggs in their Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI).

Jung himself, however, was very critical about boxing people into categories. He reportedly complained that his work had been turned into ‘nothing but a childish parlour game’ and was particularly concerned, for instance, about the reductive application of type theory in the medical profession, where practitioners would slot patients into his system and give them the corresponding advice.

It is important, therefore, to recognize our predispositions as strengths, but not to see them as excuses to neglect the development of our other potential capabilities.

For example, I always preferred to take decisions based on my Intuition. That worked perfectly fine when I was a single contributor, but became increasingly ineffective as I moved into more senior roles. I quickly had to learn to collect and use data (Sensing) in order to convince my leaders, peers, and staff of my ideas and proposals. And guess what – I quickly started to like it, and in due course even built a reputation for being ‘data savvy’.

Overcoming this “one-sidedness” — by bringing our psychological dispositions into conscious awareness and balance — is one the essential elements of ‘Individuation’, a key concept in Jung’s work.

Although Jung published ‘Psychological Types’ more than a century ago, the core notions of psychological types and individuation are still very much in use today. Think, for instance, about ‘strengths-based management’ — which primarily focuses on exploiting the strengths of individuals, rather than focusing on their development needs — or the fact that executive coaches like me encourage people to develop themselves ‘outside their comfort zone’.

In the 39th episode of the Leadership 2.0 podcast, I interviewed author James Johnston, a prominent figure in the field of Jungian typology, about key notions of Personal Development in the work of Carl Jung.

During our conversation we discussed the following topics:

  • What is Individuation?
  • What happens if Individuation is blocked?
  • Can Individuation be accelerated?
  • Do organizations have a psychological identity?
  • How to prevent an organizational monoculture?
  • The importance of understanding one’s Psychological Type
  • Can One’s Psychological Type change over time?
  • The development of the Gifts Compass Inventory (GCI)
  • Practical applications of the GCI

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Dirk Verburg: James, thank you so much for doing the podcast. I think Jung’s work really deserves a wider audience.

James Johnston: Well, it’s indeed my pleasure. I think Jung’s work really deserves quite a wide audience, so hopefully we can bring some insights to make them more accessible.

Dirk Verburg: How would you unpack the definition of individuation for first-time listeners, and why do you consider it so central to human development?

James Johnston: Individuation is the centerpiece of analytical psychology. It’s the lifelong process of becoming oneself, or as Jung beautifully said, “The privilege of a lifetime is to become who we truly are.” It is the essential purpose of life and is highly congruent with Christian traditions, echoing the call to move toward perfection.

It starts with developing the unique personality we were born to become, which is our great contribution to the world. Individuation shifts us from an ego-centered existence to a soul-centered life, aligning us with what Jung called “the infinite” or the transcendent reality present within the human psyche. Jung noted that only by connecting with the infinite can we avoid wasting life on futilities or false possessions, which lead to envy and limited aims.

Ultimately, it is a process of becoming whole, unified, and guided by a presence greater than ourselves.

Dirk Verburg: What are the psychological and practical costs when individuation doesn’t happen, both for individuals and for the organizations they are a part of?

James Johnston: Culturally, there is a strong disposition to conform. When you enter a rigid, hierarchical organization, you often give up your own personality and put on a false persona or mask to abide by the culture and join the herd. This is the absolute antithesis of individuation.

When individuation is suppressed, the power of the unconscious to disrupt the system is extraordinary. It creates structural eruptions both within the individuals and across the organization. This manifests as intense conflict, ego-driven issues, envy, and jealousy.

Because individuation is a preeminent purpose of life—one whose importance is far greater than any organizational goal—stiff and controlling corporate structures ultimately deaden the vitality of their members. Organizations must find ways to enable people to pursue their unique developmental voyages while remaining part of the larger whole.

Dirk Verburg: Can the process of individuation be cultivated earlier and more intentionally through coaching, therapy, or tools like the Gift Compass, rather than waiting for midlife?

James Johnston: The ego would love to control and accelerate individuation, but the ego is not in control. In fact, to the degree that the ego seeks to take charge, it will actually obstruct the process. Individuation requires the ego to step aside and abide by a higher calling or transcendent direction.

While it is a lifelong, and perhaps eternal, process, the best we can do in this life is practice wu wei—doing by not doing—and stop letting our ego interests interfere. However, we can actively support the process through inner work, Jungian analysis, and dream tracking.

Life is swarming with clues for individuation that we normally ignore. These include sudden projections—like noticing why you intensely dislike or randomly admire someone—and recognizing spontaneous interests or core gifts we are born with. Attending to these clues helps us move away from narrow, egocentric journeys and leads us toward a richer, more whole, and more robust life.

Dirk Verburg: How do you see collective brand identities, like Apple or Mercedes-Benz, relating to or influencing the individual development of the people working within those organizations?

James Johnston: The degree to which an organization demands adherence to a rigid, dogmatic, or one-sided orientation is deeply deadening. As soon as we take only one side, we leave a crucial part of our personality behind, which stalls individuation.

Strong brands bring true life to their organization only when they embrace the full dimensions of their employees’ personalities. For example, Southwest Airlines historically fostered a “culture of love” for customers and employees alike. Love is explicitly one of the pathways to individuation, allowing anyone to join without losing themselves. Similarly, companies like Google tend to orient toward individual initiative and expression.

When an organization values individual uniqueness and initiative at every level, it naturally fosters an environment that encourages individuation.

Dirk Verburg: Do you have any practical ideas on how organizations can implement and stimulate the individuation of their members to counter this deadening one-sidedness?

James Johnston: Yes, it all starts with the leader. This approach to life must be explicitly adopted by the leadership so that it creates an ongoing invitation and openness throughout the culture.

People constantly look to their leaders to understand the true nature of the corporate culture and how they can best serve it. At Southwest Airlines, the leader was a massive advocate for promoting love, and everyone got on board because of that clear modeling.

This is fundamentally about actively encouraging diversity of thought and ideas, and allowing people to bring their whole selves to work. Monocultures are highly vulnerable, rigid, unable to adapt, and ultimately destined to pass out of this world. Conversely, a diverse, individuated culture breeds immense structural strength, resilience, and long-term vitality.

Dirk Verburg: What do you see as the main advantages of individuals understanding their psychological type, given how heavily the concept has been debated?

James Johnston: The advantages are massive, but we must separate Jung’s original work from the static system of 16 personality categories, which Jung was not about. Jung’s model is fluid, dynamic, and organic. It features eight psychological types that represent orientations to conscious life experience, based on four functional orientations modified by extraversion or introversion.

We are born with natural dispositions toward certain orientations; these are our gifts or baseline strengths. Early in life, we should leverage these strengths. However, as we individuate, the goal is to comfortably engage all eight orientations. These eight types can combine in over 40,000 ways, creating incredibly nuanced composite strengths.

Understanding your profile builds immense self-awareness regarding what you contribute to a team, while simultaneously fostering deep empathy and mutual understanding for how others are uniquely oriented. Mutual understanding is the bedrock for flourishing teamwork and empathy.

Dirk Verburg: Do you believe that an individual can radically change their psychological type over time, or is it a more evolutionary process of broadening your repertoire?

James Johnston: Type is completely integral to depth psychology and individuation. Your unique, core personality is sacrosanct and does not change, but your conscious orientation to the eight types absolutely evolves if you are actively individuating.

The first couple of orientations that are clear to us at age 20 will likely still be our home or resting place at age 70. However, individuation is a process of knitting together oppositions. When we overdevelop one type early in life, its compliment is left in the shadow. Individuation brings up those shadow types, integrating them into the fabric of the whole personality.

When you unite these compliments, you arrive at what Jung called the tertium non datur—the third not given—out of which true personality emerges. Rather than relying on a narrow preference, you unlock all eight orientations to express your individuality. Life becomes significantly richer, more robust, and more engaged.

Dirk Verburg: Why did you undertake the endeavor to develop the Gift Compass, and what were some of the core principles you used in designing it?

James Johnston: It grew out of intellectual curiosity, a fascination with Jung, and frustration with the standard 16 personality type models. As an architect trained to design elegant solutions to complex problems, I couldn’t accurately find myself in those static boxes.

Reading Jung’s original writings, I realized he explicitly viewed his model as a compass for exploring both the conscious and unconscious realms. I wanted to rescue the depth of his original, organic vision and map out how type directly drives individuation.

I started drawing the compass layout on napkins, figuring out how to layer extraversion and introversion over the four functions. It evolved from a pen-and-paper test into an online instrument. The Gift Compass assesses all eight orientations and maps out how they dynamically interact, making the full depth and breadth of Jungian psychology highly accessible for personal growth and depth work.

Dirk Verburg: How does the Gift Compass instrument differ from the MBTI?

James Johnston: The MBTI forces individuals into an incorrect paradigm. By misinterpreting four key paragraphs in Jung’s Psychological Types, its creators concluded that there are rigid, predetermined rules for how types combine. Consequently, they only look at the first two types and identify just 16 rigid combinations, completely leaving behind 40 other natural variations.

The GCI has no predetermined boxes. We simply ask people to identify what is uniquely true for them across all eight types. We look closely at the three to five orientations that have been most active in a person’s biography. This approach respects the highly nuanced, realistic composition of an individual’s conscious and unconscious orientation to life.

Dirk Verburg: What do you see as the most important and useful practical applications of the Gift Compass for individuals, teams, and organizations?

James Johnston: It is indispensable for self-awareness. Because we have lived with our natural gifts since childhood, they are like water to a fish—we use them constantly without even noticing them. The GCI brings these out by asking individuals to reflect on highly enjoyable past experiences to pinpoint what they naturally bring to life and teams.

It also builds immense empathy for others by showing how uniquely they are oriented. In the US, we use a tool called “Discover Your Passion” to help undecided college students identify a general career direction based on their gifts, preventing costly trial-and-error changes.

Recently, we trained an AI bot on a decade of our profile data and Jung’s writings to analyze the “melody” of all eight types. It maps out custom career pathways for any of the 40,000 combinations. In HR, it optimizes teams by matching roles to what people actually enjoy, reducing burnout. It is even highly useful in marriage counseling to foster mutual understanding between opposite partners.

Dirk Verburg: James, thank you so much for this interview. I am sure this will be incredibly valuable for our listeners.

James Johnston: Thank you, Dirk. It’s been a real pleasure.

► About James Johnston

James (Graham) Johnston is an artist, architect, author, and entrepreneur. He is passionate about innovation to make the world a better place.

Out of that passion, he created the Gifts Compass Inventory (GCI), an online self-assessment founded in C.G. Jung’s theory of psychological types. His book, ‘Jung’s Indispensable Compass: Navigating the Dynamics of Psychological Types’, lays out the intellectual foundation for understanding Jung’s type model as a compass.
He founded the training company Gifts Compass Inc. to train professionals in the use of the GCI and other instruments. The aim of the work is to engage the types, as Jung did, for the development of a more unique personality.

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Why Knowing Your ‘Why’ Makes You a Better Leader

Most people I know regularly reflect on the meaning and purpose of life. In 1946, Viktor Frankl, an Austrian psychiatrist and psychotherapist, wrote one of the most important and influential books on this topic: ‘Man’s Search for Meaning‘.

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All business leaders I know are able to explain What they do, almost all of them How they do it, but only a minority can explain Why they do what they do, and that is a missed opportunity, both for themselves and their teams.

Most people I know regularly reflect on the meaning and purpose of life. In 1946, Viktor Frankl, an Austrian psychiatrist and psychotherapist, wrote one of the most important and influential books on this topic: ‘Man’s Search for Meaning‘.

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Successfully Managing Executive Transitions – Interview Navid Nazemian

Almost 90% of senior HR leaders agree that transitions into new roles are the most challenging periods in a leader’s professional life. However, organizational appetite to invest in these transitions remains minimal.

As business leaders, we seem to accept a 40% failure rate among newly appointed executives as an unavoidable risk.

The consequences of these failures are significant for both the individual and their organization.

For the individual, a failed transition damages their professional reputation and potentially their livelihood. For their organization, it results in direct financial costs (recruitment), opportunity costs, diminished employee engagement, and a degraded Employer Value Proposition (EVP).

In the 37th episode of the Leadership 2.0 podcast, I speak with Navid Nazemian—my brother-in-arms in the Executive Transition Coaching space—about how organizations can mitigate the risks of executive appointments by engaging an executive coach.

During our conversation, we discussed:

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Do not leave the Onboarding if Executives to chance – Why you should consider Transition Coaching

The statistics around executive transition failure rates of newly appointed executives are staggering: 

  • Nearly half of all leadership transitions fail (McKinsey)
  • Not only external hires fail: research from DDI shows that 35% of all executives promoted internally are considered failures
  • The costs of C-level failures are, in the vast majority of cases, higher than USD 2 million, but can be as high as USD 30 million. In their Harvard Business Review article, Claudio Fernández-Aráoz, Gregory Nagel, and Carrie Green estimate that the costs of mismanaged CEO transitions in the S&P 1500 alone already result in nearly USD1 trillion in market value loss on a yearly basis.

Unfortunately, the number of leaders and organizations that actually invest in addressing this problem is relatively small. And that is an issue for both the individuals concerned and their organizations.

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Will you also start journaling in 2026? – How I finally found the right formula!

Over the years, I made multiple attempts to start journaling. All failed…until I radically changed my approach.

The benefits of journaling

It is well known that journaling can have a positive impact on multiple levels. According to Karen A. Baikie & Kay Wilhelm, ‘expressive writing’ has a number of positive mental and physical health outcomes, ranging from a better-functioning immune system, reduced blood pressure, and improved liver function, to improved working memory, better sporting performance, and a feeling of greater psychological well-being. 

Some scientists even claim that the development of a drug that would result in medium effect sizes comparable to that of expressive writing ‘would be regarded as a major medical advance’.

The reasons why I wanted to start journaling were that I believe in the concept of solving issues and processing experiences through writing about them, and the fact that I enjoy writing.

Failed attempts

Despite periods of several months in my life where I consistently journaled, I did not stick with it. The reasons were twofold.

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Toxic Leadership – Does Your Leader Have A Dark Triad?

‘Guys, I will always have your back’, she said when she became our leader … until she did not.

We all know the stories about how notorious dictators like Joseph Stalin, Mao Zedong, and Saddam Hussein, not only ruled their countries with an iron fist, but had an inner circle of followers that were on the one hand attracted to them and craving for their approval, and on the other hand continuously on their toes, out of fear of falling out of favor and being ‘purged’ as a result. A contemporary example of such a dictator is Kim Jong Un.

Nowadays, we would say these dictators had a ‘dark triad’. 

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Successfully Selling Professional Services – Interview Matt Dixon (‘The Activator Advantage’)

‘Eating radishes’

That is how, according to Matt Dixon, many ‘doer-sellers’ experience selling their services.

People do not become management consultants, executive coaches, accountants, lawyers, or engineers to sell. However, for those working in professional service firms or independently, selling is an integral part of their role.

At the same time, professional sales processes are changing. More and more professional services are sourced through RFPs, and buying committees are replacing traditional client relationships. This means that doer-sellers need to change their approach to sales in order to stay relevant.

Based on an extensive quantitative study of nearly three thousand partners across industries such as law, accounting, consulting, investment banking, executive search, and public relations, five distinct seller types within professional service industries were identified; however only one of them, the Activator, consistently drives growth.

In the 33rd episode of the Leadership 2.0 podcast, I interviewed Matt Dixon from DCM Insights about ‘The Activator Advantage – What Today’s Rainmakers Do Differently‘.

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Have you ever considered taking a stimuli-rich holiday?

For a number of people, the summer holidays represent the mental equivalent of an oasis in a desert: a perfect opportunity to temporarily escape their daily grind and the stress of their work.

Although holidays are a fairly new invention in the history of mankind, and actually only a privilege for a, largely Western Europe-based, minority of the workforce, we ascribe almost magical powers to them. The most important ‘super’ power is the one that suggests that if we take one or more weeks off and label this ‘a holiday’, we are fully relaxed and ready to face our challenges in the workplace again.

Switching off?

However, many people find it hard to mentally switch off from their work during their holidays. Usually, they spend the first days of the holidays decompressing from their work, and they switch back on a couple of days before their work starts again.

I firmly belonged to this category as well.

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‘Ensuring successful CEO transitions’ – Interview Ty Wiggins (‘The New CEO’)

Why do people want to become CEO in the first place?” That was one of the first questions I posed to Ty Wiggins during our interview for the Leadership 2.0 Podcast.

After all, the statistics are sobering:

Being a CEO comes with immense responsibility because the CEO is ultimately accountable for the company’s entire trajectory, from strategic wins like M&As to major setbacks like corporate scandals.

Every day, CEOs must make tough decisions on issues that can’t be resolved at lower levels. More often than not, these choices are a matter of picking the ‘least unattractive’ option. These decisions have a significant influence on the lives and financial well-being of all stakeholders. This broad group includes employees, investors (e.g., pension funds), consumers, suppliers, and government bodies.

In the 32nd episode of the Leadership 2.0 podcast, I interview Ty Wiggins of Russell Reynolds about his book ‘The New CEO – Lessons from CEOs on How to Start Well and Perform Quickly (Minus the Common Mistakes)’.

During our conversation, we discussed the following topics:

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‘Trust You Gut – Decision Making and Intuition’ – An interview with Eugene Sadler-Smith

We are always informed by our intuition when it comes to making decisions. More often than not our intuition is ‘right’, but there are also situations when we should definitely not rely on our intuition.

Being able to determine when to use our intuition and when not, often means the difference between our success and failure.

In my second interview with Professor Eugene Sadler-Smith for the Leadership 2.0 Podcast, we discussed the role of intuition in decision-making processes.

During our conversation, we touched on the following topics:

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Heroic Leadership – An interview with Chris Lowney

Many people in the workplace wrestle with combining their ethical and spiritual convictions on the one hand, with what they feel is required of them to progress their careers, or simply to stay in their roles, on the other.

For people who want to address this tension, ‘Heroic Leadership – Best Practices from a 450-Year-Old Company That Changed the World’ by Chris Lowney. ‘ will be a great read!

Chris Lowney, is a one-time Jesuit seminarian, who currently chairs the board of CommonSpirit Health, America’s largest not-for-profit healthcare system with 140 hospitals and more than 150,000 employees. Previously, he served as a Managing Director of J.P. Morgan & Co. in Tokyo, Singapore, London and New York.

In the 28th episode of the Leadership 2.0 podcast, I interview Chris Lowney about Heroic Leadership. During our conversation, we discussed the following topics:

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Coaching in the workplace – An interview with Zena Everett

Most of us are acutely aware of the gap between how organizations aspire to operate and the everyday reality of working within them.

This discrepancy often has a negative impact on the motivation and well-being of employees, ranging from a decrease in employee engagement, to mental health issues,

In her book ‘Badly Behaved People’, my fellow executive coach Zena Everett describes a number of real-world cases about how this discrepancy can manifest itself, and, perhaps more importantly, how we can address them

What I particularly like about about this book is how Zena makes complex psychological concepts (for instance, Transactional Analysis) accessible without oversimplifying them, and demonstrates how they can be applied in the workplace.

In our conversation about her book, Zena and I discussed the following topics:

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Book Review: ‘What’s Your Type?’ – The history of the MBTI

Because I extensively use the MBTI when coaching executives, and because of my general interest in the work of the Swiss Psychiatrist Carl Gustav Jung (1875-1961), I was looking forward to read ‘What’s Your Type? – The Strange History of Myers-Briggs and the Birth of Personality Testing’ by Merve Emre.

For those not familiar with the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), the MBTI has been developed by Katherine Briggs (1875-1968) and her daughter Isabel Myers (1897-1980) on the basis of Jung’s Personality (‘Type’) Theory. It enables the categorization of individual personalities in 4 dimensions, resulting in the (well-known) 16 different ‘types’ (e.g., ‘ISTJ’ or ‘ENFP’).

Function PreferencePreference
Energy I – Introversion (ideas) E – Extroversion (people)
Perception S – Sensing (data) N – Intuition (intuition)
Judgment T – Thinking F – Feeling
Attitude towards outside world J – Judging P – Perceiving

Until a decade ago, the MBTI was one of the most popular personality assessment instruments, and, although it is far less popular today than it used to be, it is still extensively (ab)used.

For this reason, I was very curious to read the book. Unfortunately, I found it a mixed bag.

What I do not like about this book

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Select the right members and agenda items for your Leadership Team

Most leaders leave the composition and agendas of their leadership teams to chance. This is a waste of time, energy, and focus.

Almost all senior leaders choose the members of their leadership teams almost by default: all their direct reports, as well as a selection of participants from staffing and back-office roles ‘in the matrix’ (Finance, HR, IT, Regulatory, Affairs, Communications, Quality Assurance, etc.).

The advantages of composing leadership teams in this way are that:

✅ Representatives of all functions are aware of every topic that is discussed (information and awareness)

✅ Participants from staffing and back-office functions feel they (and their functions) are taken seriously as true ‘business partners’

✅ The leader avoids difficult discussions about the composition of their leadership team

Although this sounds great, this typically results in:

❌ Large teams

❌ Long meetings

❌ Meeting agendas that lack a clear focus

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Relationships Matter – Interview Ralph Schonenbach

Ralph Schonenbach is a serial entrepreneur whose work centers around developing and nurturing relationships. www.trymeerkat.ai is his latest start-up, and in this episode of the Leadership 2.0 podcast, I talk with Ralph about this venture, as well as his book ‘Relationships matter’, which was recently published.

In our conversation, we touched on the following topics:

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‘The Leader as Healer’ (Business Book of the year 2023) – An interview with Nicolas Janni

‘A transformational read that every leader of today needs’.

These were the words Head Judge, Jacq Burns used when she announced that ‘Leader As Healer’, written by Nicholas Janni was selected as the overall winner for the 2023 Business Book Awards.

In his book, Nicolas Janni argues that we need a new leadership model to address the challenges our society faces.

Our current leadership model is one where we see great leaders as warriors ‘on the battlefield of relentless competition’, who drive action, pursue instrumental (shareholder value related) goals, and maintain transactional relationships.

Instead, Nicholas Janni pleads for leaders who are empathetic, intuitive, present, skilled in mindfulness and deep listening, and who can inspire colleagues to engage and collaborate.

In this episode of the Leadership 2.0 podcast, I discuss with Nicholas:

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MBTI practitioners: do not shoehorn your clients into a type — do this one thing instead

In my previous post about MBTI I stressed the importance to review the outcomes of this personality assessment with clients, to make sure they understand the outcomes and recognize themselves in their type. However, often practitioners become stuck in these reviews if clients do not indicate their preferred behaviors. Although it is tempting for practitioners to try to shoehorn clients into a specific type, doing so is likely the least productive and helpful approach.

What was the MBTI again?

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Focus on your Strengths – An interview with Sally Bibb

‘I defy anybody to be energized by most appraisal systems I have seen in my career’ – Sally Bibb

As HR professionals and line managers (present company included!), we tend to take the strengths of our staff for granted and focus most of our attention on their ‘development areas’ (a euphemism for weaknesses).

The question is, however, how effective this is, and which business opportunities we miss, by following this approach.

Sally Bibb, partner at PA Consulting, leader and author in the field of strengths-based approaches to people and organisations, proposes a radically different approach and advocates focusing on strengths instead of weaknesses.

To find out what Strength Management is, and how we can implement it, I interviewed her for my Leadership 2.0 podcast.

During our conversation, Sally and I discussed the following topics:

0️⃣1️⃣ What Strength Management is

0️⃣2️⃣ How Sally became interested in the topic

0️⃣3️⃣ Is Strength Management incompatible with a Growth Mindset?

0️⃣4️⃣ Why most HR professionals remain focused on Development Areas

0️⃣5️⃣ Implementing Strength Management in HR Processes

0️⃣6️⃣ How can appraisals be improved?

0️⃣7️⃣ Is strength management a generational phenomenon?

0️⃣8️⃣ Will AI support Strength Management?

0️⃣9️⃣ Issues Sally is asked to address by her clients

1️⃣0️⃣ Final thoughts on strength management

Where to find this podcast episode

➡️ YouTube https://youtu.be/ttda6fo17UY

➡️ Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/ch/podcast/focusing-on-strengths-sally-bibb/id1511327057?i=1000662123215

➡️ Spotify https://open.spotify.com/episode/4VXi6nM5qzUHilN86Ef6yW?si=JVWrNVv1TbmhNFIU4FaZYg

➡️ No time to watch or listen to podcast now? Here is a short summary of our conversation ⤵

Dirk Verburg: I was classically trained as a line manager to focus on development areas to create “all-round” people. What are the advantages of focusing on a person’s strengths instead?

Sally Bibb: A strength is something you are naturally drawn to, that energizes you, and that you’re good at. Twenty years of neurobiological evidence shows that when people use their strengths, they are happier, more resilient, and perform better. Football managers, for example, know each player’s strengths and don’t try to make them all-rounders. While a team can be good at everything, an individual cannot. Focusing on strengths is not about ignoring weaknesses, but about intentionally using what you’re great at. Spending too much time on things you’re not good at will cause your motivation to drop, and your performance will be good at best—not great.

Dirk Verburg: Where does your personal interest in strengths come from? Did you have an experience that inspired you to focus on this topic?

Sally Bibb: My interest stems from an early experience in my career. I was promoted from a job I loved, which involved crewing ships, to one that required doing research for trade union negotiations. I was good at the first job because it leveraged my strengths in connecting with people and problem-solving. The second job, however, was a poor fit. I felt a loss of confidence and didn’t understand why until years later at a conference. A Harvard professor spoke about the emerging field of positive psychology and focusing on what’s right with people. That was a lightbulb moment for me. I realized there was nothing wrong with me; I was just a square peg in a round hole. This experience inspired me to study what makes great salespeople so successful, which was my first foray into applying strengths to the workplace.

Dirk Verburg: How do you see the relationship between strengths management and the desire to adopt a “growth mindset”? Are they contradictory, or do they strengthen each other?

Sally Bibb: I think they are highly complementary. A growth mindset—the belief that you can learn and grow—is important whether you are playing to your strengths or working on something you’re not good at. The growth mindset is not about being good at everything, but about being open to learning. For example, I worked with an executive who had never been in an innovative environment before. By having a growth mindset, he discovered a new strength in “joining the dots” and making connections. Had he not been open to this, he might have boxed himself in, assuming he wasn’t an innovative person. A growth mindset helps you discover new strengths and apply existing ones to new challenges.

Dirk Verburg: Why do you think many people in HR and talent management still focus so much on areas of development, even though the thinking has moved on?

Sally Bibb: I think a lot of it is organizational inertia. Organizations tend to do what they’ve always done, like using traditional competency frameworks and appraisal systems, even when they know these systems don’t energize people or get the best results. The organizations I work with that adopt a strengths-based approach do so because they want different outcomes, like improved performance and morale. Adopting this approach is a gradual process that requires a leader with a clear focus and determination to change things. I hope that in the next ten years, a strengths-based approach will be the norm, with new generations of leaders recognizing the benefits of this way of thinking.

Dirk Verburg: How would you practically conduct a strengths-based interview?

Sally Bibb: First, you have to know what strengths are needed for the role. For example, we studied the strengths of exemplary midwives in charge of labor wards. We found that the best ones share certain strengths beyond their clinical competencies, like a strong sense of doing the right thing. In a strengths-based interview, you ask candidates about those specific strengths. For example, “Tell me about a time when you had to ensure the right thing was done.” If it is a genuine strength, you can see their face light up and they can easily provide examples. In contrast, if you don’t know what “great” looks like for that role, a strengths interview is difficult to do effectively. The key is to match the candidate’s natural inclinations with the specific strengths that you know are critical for success in that job.

Dirk Verburg: What can we do to make classic performance interviews more meaningful by applying a strengths-based approach?

Sally Bibb: A strengths-based performance discussion should be an ongoing conversation throughout the year, not just a one-off event. It should focus on three things: the strengths you’re using regularly, the strengths you have that you might not be using, and the “weaknesses that matter”—the ones that are really getting in your way. Instead of criticizing, you can have a collaborative conversation about how to mitigate those weaknesses. This could involve using your strengths to compensate, getting help from colleagues, or finding ways to avoid the task altogether. This approach makes people feel relaxed and authentic because they don’t have to pretend to be perfect. The conversation becomes focused on potential and how to make the person even better at what they already do well.

Dirk Verburg: I have the impression that focusing on strengths comes more naturally to younger generations than to baby boomers or millennials. Would you agree with that observation?

Sally Bibb: That’s an interesting observation, and I’m not aware of any specific research on it. However, people in their 20s and 30s were raised in an era of “positive parenting” and a greater focus on self-esteem. They are often less modest and more willing to talk about their strengths. In contrast, older generations can be more modest. This is also culturally influenced. In the United States, people are generally more comfortable discussing their strengths, whereas in the UK and Switzerland, modesty can be a national sport. I see modesty as being a bit overrated, as not talking about your strengths can inhibit your ability to serve others and be overlooked for opportunities.

Dirk Verburg: You work with very big clients. What are the starting points for you in those conversations when a client wants to think about a strengths-based approach?

Sally Bibb: Clients rarely ask for a strengths-based approach directly. They come with business problems like: “We need to improve our performance,” “We need to improve our safety,” or “We need to improve staff morale and engagement.” These are the real-world problems that a strengths-based approach can solve. When clients see the impact of this approach, they like it because it connects with people and makes common sense. It’s not just a psychometric tool; it translates into hard returns and measurable outcomes. The private equity sector, for example, has been a leader in this thinking because they know that having the right combination of strengths in a leadership team is critical to a successful investment.

Dirk Verburg: We’ve discussed a lot of elements around strengths. Is there anything we haven’t touched on that you would like to mention?

Sally Bibb: There’s just one thing that’s very dear to my heart. From women in prison to senior executives, people often don’t really know their strengths or their value. The strengths-based approach makes people feel good about themselves and the contribution they make. This is the best starting point for helping people realize their potential. If we could bring this thinking into the public and political arena, there would be less burnout, less imposter syndrome, and more satisfaction and engagement at work. It’s a win-win-win for individuals, employers, and society as a whole.

▶ About Sally Bibb

She started her career working for BT International and then moved into an international role at The Economist Group before founding the strengths consultancy Engaging Minds in 2012. In 2021, she joined PA Consulting as a partner to advance her vision of bringing strengths to many more employers worldwide.

In this role, she leads strengths-based organizational change work in Europe, the USA, and Asia, and has built a track record of achieving transformational results for a number of high-profile clients in both the private, as well as in the public sector.

Sally has an MSc in organizational change from the University of Surrey and has (co-)authored eight books. A full list can be found here: https://sallybibb.com/my-books/

She is a fellow of the RSA (Royal Society of Arts) and a member of the steering committee of The Daedalus Trust, a charity founded by Lord David Owen to promote research into hubris syndrome in business.

Resources

Website Sally Bibb

Books by Sally Bibb

How to ensure successful leadership transitions – An interview with Michael Watkins

The statistics are sobering: not only do 49% of external executive hires end in failure within 18 months, but internal moves prove to be challenging as well. For instance, 40% of internal job moves involving high potentials also end in failure.

Besides the fact that these failures often have a traumatic impact on the individuals involved, the costs for the organisations are huge. Not only in terms of image and hiring costs but, more importantly, in terms of opportunity costs.

To find out why leadership transitions prove to be so hard, and what companies and individuals can do about it, I interviewed Michael Watkins for my Leadership 2.0 podcast.

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‘The advantages and limitations of intuition in decision-making’ – An interview with Eugene Sadler-Smith

We are always informed by our intuition when it comes to making decisions. More often than not our intuition is ‘right’, but there are also situations when we should definitely not rely on our intuition.

Being able to determine when to use our intuition and when not, often means the difference between our success and failure.

In my second interview with Professor Eugene Sadler-Smith for the Leadership 2.0 Podcast, we discussed the role of intuition in decision-making processes.

During our conversation, we touched on the following topics:

0️⃣1️⃣ What intuition is and what it is not
0️⃣2️⃣ The two types of intuition
0️⃣3️⃣ Adopting an Ambidextrous Mindset
0️⃣4️⃣ How to take important decisions in business
0️⃣5️⃣ Carl Jung and Intuition
0️⃣6️⃣ Why the intuitive mind is a slow learner
0️⃣7️⃣ Values and ethics in decision-making processes
0️⃣8️⃣ Final Thoughts – AI and intuition

You can watch or listen to this podcast episode on:

▶ YouTube https://youtu.be/yaSpG5UtAis

▶ Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/ch/podcast/the-advantages-and-limitations-of-intuition/id1511327057?i=1000654506560

▶ Spotify https://open.spotify.com/episode/6mCsVQCSuQ7XzYtQjvdem1?si=UiEy1VZlR0q1GB6XLyJPlA

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Why I still use the MBTI for executive coaching in 2024

One of the most important influencers on LinkedIn is Adam Grant. His seminal article about the MBTI (Myers-Briggs Type Indicator) in 2013 initiated the downhill trajectory of the reputation of this instrument.

I think that is a pity, because I consider the MBTI as a valuable personality inventory for personal development. In this post I explain why I think that is the case, and when and how I use it in my executive coaching practice.

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‘From Crisis to Innovation: A Mental Health Entrepreneur’s journey’ – An interview with Vlad Gheorghiu

The World Health Organization estimates that 12 billion working days are lost every year due to depression and anxiety. This costs $1 trillion in lost productivity.

McKinsey research showed that ‘60 % of employees have experienced at least one mental-health challenge at some point in their lives’. According to the same study ‘Failing to address the effects of mental health and well-being challenges is a missed opportunity for employers’.

Employees dealing with mental health issues are 4x more likely to say they intend to leave, 3x more likely to report low job satisfaction, 3x more likely to experience toxic workplace behavior, and 2x more likely to report low engagement.

At the same time, classic Employee Assistance Programs do not seem to work…

Vlad Gheorghiu experienced mental health issues firsthand, whilst working for McKinsey. 

This experience inspired him to design solutions. First for McKinsey, and later by co-finding a start-up company called Kyan Health.

In my conversation with Vlad, we covered the following topics:

1️⃣ Vlad’s background

2️⃣ Vlad’s engagement with mental health

3️⃣ The gap in the workplace between the mental health support employees need and receive

4️⃣ The concept of Kyan Health

5️⃣ Measuring impact

6️⃣ Creating a start-up company: Three Dos

7️⃣ Creating a start-up company: Three Dont’s

8️⃣ Vlad’s role models as an entrepreneur

If you are interested, you can watch our conversation on YouTube.


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How to make a flying start in 2024 with your regional leadership team!

The vast majority of global companies have regional leadership teams. These teams are often uncomfortably situated between the corporate executive team, and their own national (sales) organizations(s).

They usually have a tough job.

Regional leadership teams often find themselves being caught in a sandwich.

On the one hand, they are being kept responsible for realizing the revenue and profit targets for their geographic area (’their’ business), whilst also ensuring ‘compliance’ in all relevant areas.

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Steigere deine persönliche Produktivität mit diesen Tipps von fünf Experten

Steve Jobs sagte einmal: “Fokusieren bedeutet nicht, zu der Sache Ja zu sagen, auf die du dich konzentrierst. Es bedeutet, Nein zu den hundert anderen guten Ideen zu sagen, die es gibt.”

Fokusieren ist nichts, was mir von Natur aus in die Wiege gelegt wurde. Ich persönlich sehe überall um mich herum Chancen, habe ein besseres Auge für die Vorteile als für die Nachteile dieser Gelegenheiten und bin mit einem gesunden Mass an FOMO gesegnet (oder verflucht?).

Deshalb habe ich beschlossen, Fokusieren zu meinem Neujahrsvorsatz für 2023 zu machen. Für den Anfang habe ich fünf beliebte Bücher von Experten im Bereich der persönlichen Produktivität im Allgemeinen und speziell zum Thema Fokusieren bestellt.

In diesem Post werde ich meine Erkenntnisse aus ihren Büchern mit dir teilen. Ein Wort der Warnung: Dies sind meine persönlichen Takeaways – keine Mini-Rezensionen! Wenn du nach solchen suchst, empfehle ich dir dringend, sie auf goodreads.com nachzuschlagen.

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Boost your personal productivity with these tips from five experts

Steve Jobs said focusing “means saying no to the hundred other good ideas.”

Focusing is not something that comes naturally to me. Personally, I see opportunities everywhere around me, have a better eye for the upsides than for the downsides of these opportunities, and am blessed (cursed?) with a healthy degree of FOMO…

Therefore, I decided to make focusing my new-year resolution for 2023. 

For starters, I ordered five popular books of experts in the area of personal productivity in general, and more specifically on focusing.  

In this post, I will share my takeaways from their books. One word of warning: these are my personal takeaways – no mini-reviews! If you are looking for these, I highly recommend you to look them up on goodreads.com. 

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The Five-Factor Personality Model and the Numinous – An interview with Ralph Piedmont

Current thinking in Psychology is that there are five dimensions we can use to describe the most important personality dimensions. Dr. Ralph Piedmont discovered the 6th one: ‘the Numinous’.

The five-factor model of personality (FFM) is a set of five broad trait dimensions or domains, often referred to as the “Big Five”: Extraversion, Agreeableness, Conscientiousness, Neuroticism (sometimes named by its polar opposite, Emotional Stability), and Openness to Experience (sometimes named Intellect). The Big Five/FFM was developed to represent as much of the variability in individuals’ personalities as possible, using only a small set of trait dimensions. Many personality psychologists agree that its five domains capture the most important, basic individual differences in personality traits and that many alternative trait models can be conceptualized in terms of the Big Five/FFM structure (www.oxfordbibliographies.com).

Dr. Ralph Piedmont discovered the 6th factor: the Numinous.

During our conversation, Ralph and I discussed the following topics:

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‘Leadership and reputation management’ An interview with Matt Nixon

‘The real problem of humanity is the following: we have Paleolithic emotions, medieval institutions, and god-like technology’.

With this quote from Edward O. Wilson 1929 Matt Nixon answered my question if our requirements about leadership have changed in the last decades. 

Matt Nixon has more than 30 years of experience as a management consultant and HR executive, working with CEOs and senior leaders around the world. An Oxford classics graduate, he was a partner in Towers Perrin in Chicago and London, and subsequently held the positions of Global Head of Organization Effectiveness for Royal Dutch Shell, and Managing Director, Group Head of Talent for Barclays, before returning to the consulting industry.

Nowadays Matt works as a partner in a specialized consulting boutique where he coaches and advises CEOs and other senior leaders during career transitions and other periods of change and transition.

Matt has written and taught extensively on hubris in executives.

During our conversation, Matt and I discussed the following topics:

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Realizing Deep & Sustainable Behavorial Change – An interview with Arend Ardon

Why leaders should

  • reflect on their own role and behaviors to prevent self-fulfilling prophecies,
  • release control if they want to make things happen, and
  • consider creating ‘a sense of belonging’ instead of ‘burning platforms’

if they want to implement deep and sustainable behavioral change in their organizations…

These were just some of the topics I discussed with the management consultant and change management guru (although he would reject that classification!) Arend Ardon.

Arend wrote a number of bestsellers in the area of change management and leadership, and is the co-founder and co-owner of the Change Studio, a consultancy firm specializing in change management and leadership.

During our conversation, Arend and I discussed the following topics:

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Unleash the power of neurodiversity in the workplace! – An interview with Saskia Schepers

Recently I had a conversation with Saskia Schepers about her book on Neurodiversity in the workplace with the title ‘Als alle breinen werken – Waarom ruimte voor neurodiversiteit op het werk goed is voor iedereen’ (‘When all brains are switched on – Why space for neurodiversity in the workplace benefits everyone’).

Around 80% of mankind is neurotypical, and 20% is neurodivergent. We tend to ‘equip’ people in the latter category with labels like ADD, DHD, bipolar, autistic, etc.

Most leaders find it hard to integrate neurodivergent people in their teams.

The reason is that most of us have preconceived ideas about the way people in the workplace should behave. For instance, we expect people to like attending and participating in meetings, do their work in teams, be productive in open-plan offices, and socialize with their colleagues after work.

People who do not fit this mold are seen as bad ‘team players’, and are often criticized for this behavior, e.g. during annual performance review meetings.

In her book, Saskia Schepers describes what neurodiversity is, what the strong points of different types of neurodivergent people are, and how, as an organization, you can integrate neurodivergent people and capitalize on their strengths.

The book almost immediately reached the number 1 position in the Dutch bestseller list of management books, was quickly sold out, and is now in its third printed edition.

An English translation is in the making and will be published in 2024.

During our conversation, we discussed the following topics:

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The why and how of corporate ethics – An interview with John Hollwitz

Our society is more complex than ever. For the first time since WWII two nations find themselves at war on the European continent. At the same time our economy is slowing down, inflation is on the rise, whilst technological developments in the AI space are more unpredictable than ever, and we are still trying to find out if these will be our friend or foe… 

In times like these ethics, and a sense of purpose are more important than ever. Therefore I was glad to have the opportunity to have a conversation on these topics with John Hollwitz.

John Hollwitz is a University Professor of psychology and rhetoric. Before coming to Fordham, he was the A.F. Jacobson Professor of Communications at Creighton University and dean of arts and sciences at Loyola College in Maryland. He also has been the vice president of academic affairs at Fordham.

Our interview was focused on the why and how of corporate ethics. During our conversation, we discussed, amongst others, the following topics:

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Developing compassionate leaders – An interview with Sophia Town

Our expectations of leaders and ideas about leadership have changed dramatically in the last couple of years.

Recently I was introduced to Sophia Town, Ph.D. , an assistant professor of organizational behavior at the Gabelli School of Business of Fordham University, who is at the forefront of academic research in this area.

In the classroom, Professor Town’s curriculum is guided by the question: “How can we develop compassionate leaders in service of a flourishing world?”

SophiaTown leads Fordham’s Human Flourishing Project (FHFP), a mixed-methods, interdisciplinary research lab that explores behavioral, psychological, communicative, and spiritual development in business education. Related to this project, Dr. Town serves as a Research Affiliate and Advisory Board Member for the Human Flourishing Program at Harvard University.

During our conversation, we discussed, amongst others, the following topics:

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Jungian analytical psychology in the Workplace – An Interview with Murray Stein

I am a big fan of the work of Carl Jung, and in my opinion the business world could really benefit from his insights. Therefore, I was pleased to have the opportunity to have a conversation with Murray Stein about applying Jungian Analytical Psychology in the workplace.

Murray Stein is a graduate of Yale University (B.A. and M.Div.), the University of Chicago (Ph.D.), and the C.G. Jung Institut-Zurich (Diploma). He is a founding member of the Inter-Regional Society of Jungian Analysts and of the Chicago Society of Jungian Analysts. He has been the president of the International Association for Analytical Psychology (2001-4), and President of The International School of Analytical Psychology (ISAP)in Zurich (2008-2012).

He published tens of books about Carl Jung and analytical psychology, including for instance ‘Jung’s Treatment of Christianity’ and ‘Jung’s Map of the Soul’.

The focus of our conversation was a book Murray edited with John Hollwitz called ‘The Psyche at work – Workplace Applications of Jungian Analytical Psychology’.

We discussed a number of topics, including:

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Why you are a micro-manager and what you can do about it (Stop adding value)

One of the big temptations we as leaders face is our urge to add value to the work of our staff. Typically, we add this value in the form of change or additional requests.

There are three reasons why adding value is tempting for us:

  • Accountability – We are accountable for the work of our staff. If something goes wrong, we as leaders suffer the consequences (‘It happened on your watch’)
  • Know-how – We know it better than our staff. Seriously. That is most often the reason why we were appointed
  • We like it – As leaders it is often tempting to take a break from the daily grind of budgets and office politics, to dive back into the content we love(d) so much (‘Let me show you how it is done’)

As with every temptation in life, we need to fight this one as well. There are fivereasons for this:

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Your wellbeing: why a personal mission is more important than a position

What do the notorious former marketing director of American Apparel, Ryan Holiday, and renowned Dutch reformed theologian Bram van de Beek have in common? They both have written a book about the danger of egocentricity. 

Social media…are not to blame

Social media offers endless possibilities to promote ourselves and serve as outlets for our vanity. It enables us to humble brag about our professional achievements on LinkedIn, share evidence of our successful ‘friends & family’ life on Facebook, and demonstrate our cutting-edge lifestyle on Instagram. 

However, looking at our current society and world history, it seems we as human beings always have been prone to self-centeredness and self-promotion. Social media therefore merely enables us to express something that is already deeply rooted in us.

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Are your deeply held convictions your backbone or Achilles heel?

In all walks of life, there are people who have deeply held convictions about how the world works, and act accordingly. The business world is no exception. 

Examples I encountered during my career were business leaders that held and acted according to the following convictions:

  • The only way you gain respect by ‘the business’ as a staff department, is by reducing your headcount to the absolute minimum
  • Partnering with other vendors to deliver an integrated solution for clients is unnecessarily complex and has a negative impact on the margin
  • Teams perform at their best if the annual bonus of individual members is linked to individual financial targets 
  • Customizing services for individual clients equals to sub-optimization

Strong convictions usually stem from the successes they brought us in the past. They also tend to become stronger over time: every time we successfully act in accordance with one of our convictions, our inclination to use it in similar situations increases.

Strong convictions offer several advantages

Strong convictions help us to make sense of the world around us and to simplify our decision-making processes. They save us time and effort. When we are confronted with an issue on which we have a strong conviction, our mental muscle memory immediately kicks in to prescribe the decision we need to take.

Another advantage of strong convictions is the potential it offers to persuade others. Because we feel strongly about a topic and have an active ‘personal repository’ of evidence (previous cases in which a particular course of action worked for us), we can speak convincingly to others about it.

Disadvantages

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Why ‘The rest is politics’ is my favorite Podcast

According to Moises Naim, polarization, together with populism and post-truths, is one of the three p’s undermining democratic societies.

Observing the public debate, which is becoming more and more polarized, it seems we are losing our ability to talk with people who have other opinions. Instead, we talk about them.

We try to classify people who have a different opinion than us, with a label. Once this label has been issued, we feel we do not have to enter in debates with them anymore. On the contrary, we try to prevent debates, since this would provide our opponents with an opportunity to share their opinions.

The difficulty however is that the effectiveness of human societies depends on our ability to cooperate and reconcile our differences. 

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For when I am weak, then I am strong – Authentic Self-Confidence

‘We read to know we’re not alone’ said actor Anthony Hopkins, playing the character of author C.S. Lewis, in the movie ‘Shadowlands’. 

People suffering from the imposter syndrome doubt their abilities and feel like a fraud at work.I personally suffered quite a bit from the ‘imposter’ syndrome in the past, and at times experience serious relapses. 

Fortunately, it turns out I am not the only one!

After reading ‘Authentic Self-Confidence’ by Jacqueline Brassey, Nick van Dam and Arjen van Witteloostduijn, I realize I am part of a large community that includes successful (and sometimes well-known) academics, surgeons, management consultants and senior executives.

Lack of Authentic Self-Confidence can lead to sub-optimal performance (e.g. because individuals feel constrained to bring the best version of themselves at work), which can have negative emotional impact on themselves, their families, teams and organizations. Therefore a high-quality publication on this topic is extremely welcome.

There are three reasons why I full-heartedly recommend this book.

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Why self-managing teams do not exist

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In short, self management simply means ‘no bosses’. That’s it (Geoff Roberts)

Thinking back on your highschool school days, do you remember the popular child with its entourage deciding which music, movies and influences were in, or out; whose parties everyone wanted to be invited to? Did you also have a bully at school who terrorized the schoolyard with his accomplices, when no supervising adults were around? Perhaps you also remember the importance of being ‘befriended’ with children in the class whose parents had a swimming pool; and I am sure you also had someone in class whose homework you and everybody else wanted to copy. 

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I thought the concept of self-managing teams had already died a well deserved death, until I recently saw a clip on YouTube. The clip advocates the concept of self-managing teams by comparing the productivity of self-managing teams with the traffic flow through a roundabout. Different scenarios are compared to ensure the most effective flow to cross an intersection: with or without human supervision, with traffic lights and finally with the creation of a roundabout. Spoiler alert: the roundabout wins. Moral of the story is that in the absence of central control participants will self-regulate the responsibility to cross the intersection, and that by doing so productivity and safety will increase.

I am stunned by the enthusiasm for this clip, because I think the parallel between teamwork and crossing an intersection is incredibly weak. I would even go so far as to say it is non-existent. 

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Why leadership has become more difficult and why this matters

I spent a significant part of my working life developing leaders in organizations. What strikes me is that during COVID-19 the demand for this type of work has not decreased; if anything, the demand for leadership development has increased. That is remarkable. During the financial crisis in 2007-2008, for instance, most companies tried to save money, and one of the first things they considered was decreasing the out-of-pocket costs associated with these, and other kind of developmental activities.

Recently I was asked why companies continue to invest in the quality of their leadership at all levels of the organizations, despite the economic uncertainty they are facing.

In my opinion, the reason is that companies have come to realize the growing importance of the quality of leadership at all levels of the organization. I believe that this is a good thing, especially because leadership roles have become more demanding in the last couple of decades, not only for senior leaders, but also for first, and second-level leaders in organizations. 

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What the workplace in 2021 will look like and what this means for you

2021 will be a very interesting year! If all prognoses are correct, sometime in the next six months we should have developed a grip on COVID19. 

For 2021, I foresee three trends in the workplace. Although none of these trends is initiated by COVID19, the pandemic will definitely act as a catalyst.

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Why do smart people make wrong decisions?

The most important part of leadership is making decisions. Decisions about products and markets to invest in, people to hire and to promote, IT-systems to select, to continue or terminate projects plagued by setbacks, mergers & acquisitions, etc. These decisions determine the success or failure of organizations, projects and individuals. 

Ever since my graduation in the field of Sociology, I have always been very interested in the topic of decision making in organizations. At university, I loved the lectures of Professor Lawler about concepts like bounded rationality. I also loved reading books on this topic, including ‘Essence of Decision’ (about decision making in the Kennedy administration during the Cuban missile crisis) and Barbara W. Tuchman’s classic ‘March of Folly’.

Do we really need another book on this topic?

Against this background, I was a bit concerned when my friend and former PA Consulting Group colleague Wim van Hennekeler, told me that he was writing a book about decision making. This was mainly due to my concern about whether he could possibly add value to the vast body of work that was already published on this topic.

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Pump up the volume: why business books often are too voluminous!

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During my years in college, one of the first rap songs that became extremely popular was ‘Paid in full’ from Eric B & Rakim in the Coldcut mix. Its signature ingredients contained the soundbite ‘Pump up the volume’. 

‘Pump up the volume’ also was the phrase that resounded in my head when I recently read ‘Rebel Talent – Why it Pays to Break the Rules at Work and in Life’, a bestseller written by Francesca Gino, a well-known Harvard Business School professor. The entire book is based on a single concept that could easily have been explained on one single page.

Instead, the author used more than 230 pages, which cost me the better part of a Sunday to read…

Why I like reading business books

I like reading business books for four reasons:

  1. To satisfy my intellectual curiosity
  2. To help me to make sense of what I personally observe about the way organizations ‘work’ (or not!)
  3. To enhance my skills 
  4. To keep me ‘current’

Why I am often disappointed after reading them

However, more often than not, I feel reading them is not the most efficient use of my time. The reason why is that (like the example mentioned at the beginning of this post), business books often try to expand ideas and concepts that could be explained in a couple of pages to the size of a book. This almost always means they need to cross the magical border of 200 pages.

I think this phenomenon is caused by the fact that business books mean ‘business’. Although it is not easy to gain insight into the market for business books, creatively extrapolating existing statistics indicate that each year more than tens of millions of business books are sold across the world. Therefore, the market for business books might be around one billion dollar. NB: This estimate excludes the sales of textbooks for higher education.

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What we can learn about change management from Sigmund Freud

One of my core beliefs as a management consultant is that the root cause of why change projects fail is the lack of a clear and convincing business case. In my experience, the vast majority of people are willing to change (even if this change has negative implications for them), as long as they understand the rationale behind the change and have the means (resources) to change.

However, I also have come across a number of people who did not want to change, even when there was a clear need to do so, and they had all the required capabilities and resources at their disposal.

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The Negative Feedback Paradox

Let me start with a confession:I never liked receiving negative feedback, and have spent the largest part of my professional life ignoring it.

I found ignoring negative (or perhaps I should euphemistically say ‘corrective’) feedback to be quite easy. Depending on the situation, I either did not take the person who gave me feedback seriously (‘that is rich – from him?’), comforted myself that the feedback concerned only a minor issue in the grand scheme of my behavior (and that other aspects of my behavior would compensate this), or convinced myself that the person giving me feedback did not understand the context in which I acted the way I did or said the things I said.

It was not until I hit a serious roadblock in my career, that I started to see the fact that systematically ignoring feedback was not necessarily a great idea. 

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Setzen Sie immer zuerst Ihre eigene Sauerstoffmaske auf (Persönliche Effektivität)

Machen Sie Ihre Verantwortlichkeiten zu Ihrer Priorität

Für viele Führungskräfte gleicht ihr Tag im Büro dem Trinken aus einem Feuerwehrschlauch. Sie müssen nicht nur an einer grossen Anzahl von Besprechungen teilnehmen (oft direkt hintereinander), sie werden auch von einem kontinuierlichen Strom von Ad-hoc-Fragen ihrer Mitarbeiter, Kollegen, Kunden und Linienvorgesetzten getroffen, die ihre Aufmerksamkeit und ihr Handeln erfordern.

Vor ein paar Jahren begann ich, mir wirklich Sorgen um meine persönliche Effektivität zu machen. Trotz der unverschämten Anzahl an Stunden, die ich bei der Arbeit verbrachte, fand ich es zunehmend schwierig, meine Aufgaben zu erledigen und meine Projekte abzuschliessen. Um dies anzugehen, entschied ich mich, meine Arbeitslast zu analysieren, um herauszufinden, was ich tun könnte, um dies zu ändern.

Für wen arbeiten Sie?

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Put on your own oxygen mask first – and exponentially increase your personal effectiveness!

Make your responsibilities your priority

For many business leaders, their day in the office resembles drinking from a fire hose. Not only do they need to attend a large number of meetings (often back to back), they are also hit with a continuous stream of ad-hoc questions from their staff, peers, customers, and line managers which require their attention and action.

A couple of years ago I started to get really worried about my personal effectiveness. Despite the outrageous number of hours I spent at work, I found it increasingly difficult to complete my tasks and finish my projects.

In order to address this, I decided to analyze my workload to find out what I could do to change this.

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